Intimacy & Relationship Consulting~ Spiritual Support ~ Visionary Entrepreneur
Jade Beaty’s mission is to promote love, compassion, kindness and healing through projects and private consultations focused on the full embodiment of Spirit into Form.
My values, philosophy and peace practices all revolve around my identity, first and foremost, as a Lover. My projects are always big and consistently about healing and connection with all aspects of myself, first, and then with others. The time I’ve spent in inner exploration has not been wasted, but has enhanced my journey in ways that are too numerous to list.
I have never been comfortable with the world the way it is, and have envisioned and yearned for a very different world since I was a child. I’ve had a hard time staying in this world. I remember the day that the concept of suicide landed for me. I was around eight years old, and it was such a relief for me to realize that I could choose departure at any time – abort the mission, so to speak. My heroes have been the men and women who have dedicated their lives to cultivating peace and making the world better: Gandhi, Martin Luther King, Jr., Mother Teresa, Gloria Steinem, Eleanor Roosevelt, Dr. Cornel West, and the Kennedys, to name just a few. I have spent time studying the great master teachers: Jesus, Buddha, Krishna, Osho, Ram Dass and many more. I’ve also been in the delightful company of many who walk among us that are unnamed and unknown, but are great spiritual teachers. In some ways, everyone is a master teacher, if we accept the lessons given us in relationships.
I want to continue to serve, but in a more balanced and holistic way, including myself in what I wish to create for others. I have always wanted everyone to be OK – better than OK – to have all our basic needs met, physically and emotionally, so that we can move into the realm of self-fulfillment through co-creative process, bringing prosperity and abundance to all. Our earth offers everything we need to live well, if we all live simply and remember to share.
My values are rooted in the belief that there is really only One of us here, and that what happens to one of us, happens to all of us on some level. The reason I’ve been so drawn to Tantric and Taoist teachings of sacred sexuality, is because there are practices that prove, in an energetic and profound way, that duality and separation are illusions. I’ve played in that tantric field with myself and with lovers and teachers. Words are weak, but the closest I’ve been able to come is that it feels like I enter into the outwardly pulsating expansion of everything that exists and it is somehow all about Love. The first time it happened I was hooked – initiated, in a way – into learning all I could about this state of expansion via engagement with sexual energy or life force. This has always made sense to me. I’d just never come across the language or the teachings until I was ready for the teacher. When I could manage to speak after that first experience, I looked at the man who became my first Tantra teacher and I said, “I have two questions. Can I do that again? And can I help others do that?” He grinned at me and said, “Yes. And yes.” This was in 2000, and I’ve never looked back. The healing that happens when we address sexual wounding is the rest-of-my-life’s work. Addressing our most intimate and tender wounding heals us from the inside out.
It seems I was born with a wide-open heart and took on everyone else’s feelings in my family dynamics. I learned empathy as a survival function, to attempt to stay safe in a system that held explosive repressed emotions and toxic secrecy. This taught me emotional intelligence and gave me a lot of personal work within the realm of holding boundaries and maintaining my own sense of self. My mother, and later my second husband, were the perfect nemeses. The resilience I developed – the stubbornness of maintaining who I am – created a depth of character in me that makes me odd, but interesting.
I practice the art of allowing people to be wherever they are at, as I conspire to love them, unconditionally. I’ve taught spirituality in prisons with mostly men, some who have done horrendous things. I was able to separate the man from his behavior (and sometimes his personality) and see him as a fellow traveler on the journey home.
As a reincarnationist, I believe that we’ve all done all of it – every despicable act – and died in every conceivable way, multiple times. We need only to embrace ALL of it within ourselves and others, to truly Awaken and end the games of separation. The shadow work is important, and not found in most religious teachings, because of the ancient play of good versus “evil” – another illusion of duality. It’s all God. Religions have been used to control the behavior of the masses through guilt and the threat of punishment, something that I’m certain our Creator never intended.
The community values I hold are about creating sacred space for those who are doing the hard work of healing trauma, by surrounding them with therapies that work, organic food, people who understand the process, sunshine and work outdoors, animal friends and any other forms of support that they need to settle the nervous system and progress toward healing.
People who have lived outside the norm of society have a great deal to offer to those who are entrenched in cultural programming. Perhaps the renegades, the ones who have rebelled against the dominant paradigms, are the ones who can lead us out of the messes we’ve made as they help us learn to truly honor the individual gifts that each of us bring. Learning to understand, live with and ultimately heal trauma as we also explore the power of gathering in collectives to share and support each other seems like a most worthy undertaking. We are living in these amazing times of transition, and it’s possible that these times may hold the potential for healing ancient patterns of distress and cultural insanity.
I stand for the upliftment of the oppressed Divine Feminine, and the healing of the out-of-balance Sacred Masculine. We’ve all suffered under the domination culture for eons of time. I want the ‘gender wars’ to end, and for anyone to be able to love whomever they please, without any concern for what gender they come in, or what others might think. Integration and harmonic balance of Yin and Yang, dark and light, sun and moon – all the opposites and extremes – is where our attention can be placed. Not eliminating any of it, because it is all within the embodiment of all that exists, and it must all be here for good reason.
Since attending Naropa, I have more hope. I think it’s because of the brilliant young people I met and got to know. My generation was disturbed by the social ills of our time: lack of equality and opportunity for everyone, the Vietnam War and all it entailed, the oppression and secrecy of the government, and rampant consumerism at any cost. If we can shift things away from valuing money and material possessions over taking care of people, we can then work toward changing everything else. What if the first question asked was “What do you need?” and then, “What will you contribute?” Until we address the basic human needs for everyone on the planet, we cannot all thrive into the evolution of ‘we’ instead of ‘me.’ I saw the emergence of these values in the young people around me at Naropa, and I know we can model this new era, this new vision, for others.
“God may be in the details, but the goddess is in the questions. Once we begin to ask them, there’s no turning back.” ~ Gloria Steinem
Image 1 ~ New Vision
Image 2 ~ Healing
Image 3 ~ Breakthrough
Image 4 ~ The Master
The source of the images is Osho Zen Tarot ~ The Transcendental Game of Zen by Osho and Deva Padma (New York, NY, St. Martin’s Press, 1994). With grateful acknowledgement to Osho for the brilliance of his teachings and the creation of this deck of cards. I like to think he would appreciate my use of them. www.osho.com